Getting married at 21 was never something I planned on doing. I always pictured myself being older or more "experienced". I quickly realized after I met Blake that those "experiences" I thought I needed before marriage weren't necessary to have a successful marriage or a happy life. But there are some things I wish I knew before I took the plunge. Here are somethings I'm still learning everyday, that I wish I would've applied before marriage. 1. Its not all sunshine and rain